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Sunday, October 26, 2008

10-26-08 Leadership Dialogue ~ Answer YOUR Questions Tonight ~

EASY LEADERSHIP LESSONS

From Seth Godin's blog.

Be careful of who you work for

Posted by Seth Godin
October 24, 2008
http://sethgodin.typepad.com/seths_blog/2008/10/index.html

Bill2 The single most important marketing decision most people make is also the one we spend precious little time on: where you work.
Think about this for a second. Your boss and your job determine not only what you do all day, but what you learn and who you interact with. Where you work is what you market. Work in a high stress place and you're likely to become a highly stressed person, and your interactions will display that. Work for a narcissist and you'll develop into someone who's good at shining a light on someone else, not into someone who can lead. Work for someone who plays the fads and you'll discover that instead of building a steadily improving brand, you're jumping from one thing to another, enduring layoffs in-between gold rushes. Work for a bully and be prepared to be bullied.
And yet, there are plenty of books about getting a job, but no books I know of about choosing a job. There are hundreds of sites where job seekers can go to find a new job, and virtually none where you can find reviews of bosses or companies or jobs.
Ted Zoromski really needed a job, so he took one doing human spam (outbound telemarketing). That's his first mistake. This isn't a stepping stone to something better, it doesn't teach you much, it grinds you down and it doesn't make you more marketable. When he found he was also making calls he found offensive, he quit.
Years ago, when I had ten people working for me at my book packaging company, one client accounted for about half our revenue. They were difficult, constantly threatening litigation, sending lawyers to otherwise productive meetings, questioning our ethics and more. It was clearly the culture of their organization to be at war. So I fired them. I gave them the rights and walked away, even though it meant a huge hit to our organization. Why do it? Because if we had stuck with them, it would have changed who we were, who we hired and how we marketed ourselves going forward. We would have had a lifetime of this.

How many job offers with good pay have you turned down in your lifetime? How many clients? Compare that to how many times you've been rejected. That's totally out of whack. Great marketing involves having a great product, and not every job (or every client) is worth your time or attention or love.

If you want to become the kind of person that any company would kill to have as an employee, you need to be the kind of employee that's really picky about who you align with.

10-26-08 Leadership Dialogue ~ Answer YOUR Questions Tonight ~

EASY LEADERSHIP LESSONS

Good Evening, Leaders~

Wow! With so much getting re-configured these days, it seems an opportune evening to look over the recent set of Sunday Evening Conversations we have had ~ and take an evening to review, comment, question, answer, and discuss some of these advanced leadership topics.



ALL the billionaire business crowd are insisting this is an OPPORTUNE time to start and to do business.



You can review some of these hot topics:
1. Interview with Big Al Tom Schreiter on communicating with the subconscious in business.


2. Seth Godin ~ The Dip ~ When to Quit &When to Continue


3. Diamond Cutter ~ Secret Energies at work in success & non-success ~ and how to fix.

4. Any other topics that you can review on our Leadership Generic Blog at

http://ThePatCrosbyLeadershipHour.Blogspot.com


You will also find something quite wonderful and fascinating on the blog ~ while browsing youtube, I came across a great video of the real and original NAPOLEAN HILL ~ author of everybody's favorite THINK & GROW RICH. Really kewl to see him in the flesh and voice.


Our calls are unique in that we go into topics that arise in leadership as you prepare yourself to lead a team, and then to handle the various team dynamics that come as your team grows.


Many other calls teach and discuss how to get a team up and running, and how to do web 2.0 outreach. We specialize in the inner journey of leadership ~ and somewhat of a roadmap (if it exists?) along the pathway of leadership.

It is our philosophy that true leadership arises within each one of us ~ and grows as we grow.





This is an OPEN MIKE call, so come prepared to chime in.


We welcome back out chatty and vivacious co-host Lynn Rothfuss tonight ~ who has been on a sabbatical for awhile contemplating her..... (fill in the blank). It's always good to hear Lynn's heart-felt and deeply processed shares. No glib chit-chat here. She delivers full value when she talks.


This call will be ARCHIVED for listening on demand at

http://ThePatCrosbyLeadershipHour.Blogspot.com




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Other News:


Big Al's newsletter contains many tidbits of golden information and ideas. I have appended a recent one below. We may or may not get to discuss it tonight... depending on how the call goes....but for sure, subscribing to Big Al's list is a MUST.



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Happy News! After an all-nighter (reminds me of school finals), I FINALLY got my new book uploaded.... (well I am going to re-do the cover on the print version when I get some more techie help this coming week....)


Here is what our friend Bob Burg, author of the business best-seller, has to say about this book. I must admit, I was stunned and delighted with his fast and powerful endorsement of my book:



TOP AUTHOR BOB BURG, THE GO-GIVER
"There are very few things more counterproductive than holding a grudge. In this little gem, Pat Crosby shares a method for forgiveness that can provide you with more happiness, joy, peace of mind, and financial success."
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    Don't you just love the part about "financial success"? Bob has a deep understanding of the energies involved in being successful. AND he's such a delightful speaker and author.
    So you can find the book online, PLUS a new online support group for those interested in dropping old stones from the past and lightening up athttp://ILoveForGIVEness.Blogspot.com
    I recommend the ebook version - as it is in full-color. AND it has live links to the online free meditation exercise (short and to the point) to free you up to move forward.
    Believe me, it is free, fast, and easy ~ after all, we are into business innovation with rapid sure-fire results here.
    I have learned so many techie wonders working on this project.... soon I will even get my new ILoveForGIVEness.com url up and running over the Blogspot. url.
    Thanks to EVERYONE who has been so supportive, so patient, so understanding. Writing, publishing, and then promoting a book IS a major life event! Isn't being in business so much fun?
    So creative... so stimulating. So adventuresome. Sure is better than sitting around being depressed listening to the mass media hysteria, right ?
    I'm in several Ning groups ~ so decided to start one of my own ~ for people who want to dump the old past and move on.
    The views and experiences the newly-forming members are posting are quite awe-inspiring and mind-blowing all at the same time.http://ILoveForGIVEness.Ning.com Already, we have members from several different cultures, so the photos and movies members are posting are totally inspiring. My FAVORITE is the video on The 7 Wonders of the World. You will NEVER guess what they are...~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

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Big Al Tom Schreiter Report Picks



October 23, 2008

It's bizarre. Distributors spend hundreds of dollars on products, services, advertising, travel, promoting . . . just to get prospects . . . and not a single dime on learning what to say when they get there.

Stop the insanity. Go to:

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(This is for serious network marketers only.)


In this issue . . .
1. Not enough good quality prospects = Stress. Eight quick solutions.

2. "Live" Big Al workshop schedule - New locations!

3. What you shouldn't say to prospects.

4. A simple sentence to get your prospect's instant attention.

5. What's new at FortuneNow.com.

6. Where are we?

7. Fat Boy Report.

Not enough good quality prospects = Stress. Eight quick solutions.

The cause of stress in network marketing is having too few prospects.

When we only have a couple of prospects, we press, we push, we strain to make them join our opportunity. Prospects feel this pressure and instinctively back away from us.

This leads to fewer prospects and the vicious cycle gets worse and worse.

When we have an abundance of prospects, we're happy. We are not desperately waiting for a single decision from a single prospect. We aren't married to the outcome of a single presentation.

Instead, we're relaxed. We simply share our opportunity and take the first prospects who volunteer and step forward. Now we're working with volunteers and we have more great prospects waiting in line.

Which scenario describes your network marketing career?

A. Are you pressing and struggling from too few prospects?
B. Or, are you simply accepting applications from the best volunteers from your large pool of quality prospects?

The solution is simple:

Increase your marketing so that you have an abundance of prospects.

Why not increase your personal contacts now? Here are some quick ideas:

1. Host your class reunion. You don't have to wait for a 10-year or 20-year anniversary. You can do it anytime.


2. Take your best three or four headlines and first sentences and test them. Mail out 100 postcards and test the response for each.


3. Start your own breakfast club. The attendees will gladly send you pre-sold referrals for your efforts.


4. Offer to be a guest on a local radio talk show.


5. Loan out ten "How To Get Rich Without Winning The Lottery" books. Want to learn how to do it with great results?


Go to http://www.fortunenow.com/products/item30.cfm and scroll down to the bottom of the page where it says: "How to use this book (Free 14-page report)" and click on that link to get the complete report.


6. Establish some contacts who will send you referrals.


7. Pass out 10 product CDs.


8. Pass out 10 product samples or information packs.
There are plenty of ways to expand your universe of quality prospects. Just pick a method that's comfortable for you.

Get seven no-cost examples of ways to sponsor new distributors, taken directly from the '103 Ways & Places to Sponsor New Distributors' manual.

Simply go to:

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